self worth!!!

We don't need others to dictate our self-worth 

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In the era of social media this is the first problem we are facing : 

Our sense of self worth is validated by others by likes, dislikes, by comments, by how someone is reacting ,by how your popularity is growing . 

It's really important to know we don't need others to be happy we need to love ourselves to be happy.....

The more you show your life here the more you will develop anxiety for "what others think " 

If you are thinking "no i am not into this trap"...  Think again.. 

Remember how you checked constantly who is liking your photos on facebook... 

Remember telling your friends to like your posts and comment on them...  So that you can become popular... 

And tik-tok which made people famous in their own world...  N makes you forget where real world actually lies... 

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Pause for a few days from social media and you will know... You are actually not that popular, liked, n wowed by people...  They just scroll up things n you gained just fraction of their distracted attention... That made you happy for a while and sad by seeing someone else gaining more popularity... 

Such things were previously only seen in public figures... But it's increasing in normal population... 

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Now you need someone to shake you up and say...  Hello,  you are beautiful inside and nobody needs to tell you this... You need to feel this. You don't need a validation from others.

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-amu