self worth!!!

We don't need others to dictate our self-worth 

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In the era of social media this is the first problem we are facing : 

Our sense of self worth is validated by others by likes, dislikes, by comments, by how someone is reacting ,by how your popularity is growing . 

It's really important to know we don't need others to be happy we need to love ourselves to be happy.....

The more you show your life here the more you will develop anxiety for "what others think " 

If you are thinking "no i am not into this trap"...  Think again.. 

Remember how you checked constantly who is liking your photos on facebook... 

Remember telling your friends to like your posts and comment on them...  So that you can become popular... 

And tik-tok which made people famous in their own world...  N makes you forget where real world actually lies... 

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Pause for a few days from social media and you will know... You are actually not that popular, liked, n wowed by people...  They just scroll up things n you gained just fraction of their distracted attention... That made you happy for a while and sad by seeing someone else gaining more popularity... 

Such things were previously only seen in public figures... But it's increasing in normal population... 

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Now you need someone to shake you up and say...  Hello,  you are beautiful inside and nobody needs to tell you this... You need to feel this. You don't need a validation from others.

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-amu

protection or bondage?

 

I am a girl and i want to ask you....

Why a girl needs permission? From parents or from husband? Or in laws?

Why it's other people who tells us what we can't do.?

Girls can't wrestle, can't fight, can't drive properly, can't.... Oh bloody can't...

Why my dreams are harder to fulfill than yours?

Why I have to rely on someone else for my life decisions?

Why there is a line for me?

Why I have been told my limitations?

Why there is to be difference between pursuing your life as a girl and as a guy?

Why you have to scare the girl to go out in this world?

Why can't I fight my own fight?

Why I need a man?

Why if I want to respect your decision... You can't respect my dreams?

Why my certain Dreams are valid and certain dreams are not valid.?

Why in life lessons I need to learn to sit at home,Take care of my family only?

Why you take hold on my life... While u are messed up in yours?

Why you are scare of a stronger girl?

Why you don't understand love and only understand rebel.

It's not just save girl child... You need to nurture her, educate her... And please when you do... Have faith and provide independence or it must be snatched.

Ask yourself ... are you protecting me>?? or keeping me in a bondage?

Every person is independent and have their rights to make their own decisions... When law permits it why can't you?

Don't Rott your plant by overprotecting it... Let it grow... Let it cut... Let it learn.

-Amu