I am sensitive!

I am sensitive!  A term commonly used these days by many of us.
We are sensitive to many things these days.... Memes, likes, accepted or rejected friend requests... If someone calls or not on your birthday...
Why he isn't available online?  Why he don't do what I do?

We became sensitive to simple 'no'...

Being sensitive is converting into being fragile....
Tolerance has been decreased. Women are so feminist these days they can't handle criticism. Patience of listening to others, respect of others opinions ...are rarely seen.

But they hurt my feelings!
If they are saying something about my personal life.... If they have opinions about me... Off course I am going to be reacting this way!
This is normal... If they will do that I will get angry...

Really?  Is it normal?
So by saying this you are saying... I don't have any control of any of my outcomes... It all depends on other people...
You gave all the power to that other person...
What you feel is determined by what they say.... Not what you actually feel!

We act without thinking, we react like a chemical.... So are you really sensitive or fragile?
One small needle and balloon bursts...

What to do?
Next time before reacting to something try to stop yourself for a moment and try to listen what other person is saying... Try to understand what and why he is saying that?
And then ask yourself does it really affect me?
Or its just an opinion or advice or a thought.

Being sensitive is the basic human nature... To be sensitive towards pain of others, towards animals.... Towards our relationships.
Be sure of what are you sensitive about!

Amrata sharma.

Why love others?

It's very easy in today's world to hate someone, it seems hate is in the air...
You can see it everywhere.. People trolling each other on internet,  news industry,old gossip way,  criticizing others on the basis of their achievements.
Expect everyone to be like you... To like you... And many other form of hate,like..why she always post these stupid stuff on fb?
 Another picture of the couple you see on social media and you say I hate my life. Why he's achieving more than me? ugghh...hate and hate...

Yes it seems natural to hate someone... Than to love what they are, whatever their life is.
You know why?  Because you hate your life too... You hate yourself.
We just see our reflection in others...
A human mind notices only what he knows... And your mind knows you.
And because of these hatred... There are increasing number of mental disorders in the world.

So why to love? Who to love?
Love yourself.... As you are, no matter what comparisons says.
Love because you need it, the more you love... More happy you are..

But people take advantage of me? They cheat me... Why to love them?
Because it's their karma... Your karma is to love..and they will also change..
But don't love because you want them to change... Love because you can!
Love is the basic human nature...

Mind your thoughts next time you Scroll a picture on social media.... Are you saying... I am happy for them, it's good they are enjoying... Or uggh ugly face, ugly figure...

You are what you see in others!

Amrata sharma.