I am sensitive!

I am sensitive!  A term commonly used these days by many of us.
We are sensitive to many things these days.... Memes, likes, accepted or rejected friend requests... If someone calls or not on your birthday...
Why he isn't available online?  Why he don't do what I do?

We became sensitive to simple 'no'...

Being sensitive is converting into being fragile....
Tolerance has been decreased. Women are so feminist these days they can't handle criticism. Patience of listening to others, respect of others opinions ...are rarely seen.

But they hurt my feelings!
If they are saying something about my personal life.... If they have opinions about me... Off course I am going to be reacting this way!
This is normal... If they will do that I will get angry...

Really?  Is it normal?
So by saying this you are saying... I don't have any control of any of my outcomes... It all depends on other people...
You gave all the power to that other person...
What you feel is determined by what they say.... Not what you actually feel!

We act without thinking, we react like a chemical.... So are you really sensitive or fragile?
One small needle and balloon bursts...

What to do?
Next time before reacting to something try to stop yourself for a moment and try to listen what other person is saying... Try to understand what and why he is saying that?
And then ask yourself does it really affect me?
Or its just an opinion or advice or a thought.

Being sensitive is the basic human nature... To be sensitive towards pain of others, towards animals.... Towards our relationships.
Be sure of what are you sensitive about!

Amrata sharma.