Who are you blaming?

Blaming is harming u!
All these years I learned a pattern of behavior ..
Blaming others… 
Not just for their behavior or things that I felt was wrong…
But due to this pattern formation… was blaming on things they did not do…
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Maybe it’s not true you…
You might have learned this behavior from someone else… maybe a friend
Who had this pattern… or maybe a parent or sibling…
You took This pattern as a way to communicate ..
You might think it’s normal…
I used to think that too..
But what I could never understood that instead of helping or correcting the situation..other person doesn’t really behave the way I wanted… or better the other person felt guilt, anger and frustration..
Relationship becomes sour…
And you get into a loop of blaming - hurting- not accepting…
Because you were already hurt… then you  tried to tell the person what they did… n instead of help or betterment… situations get worse…
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Now let’s see how it should be…
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